You should seriously consider breaking up with her. People in committed relationships do not have those kinds of conversations with other people. And she kept it from you. She is hiding this and probably other information from you. Just having that conversation is wrong and a betrayal of your trust. It was wrong and selfish. However, is there somethingn in your relationship that you arent fullfilling for her that set the stage for this conversation? Nothing in this is your fault, but her needs may not be met and it would set the stage for her to have this conversation, which is wrong. She should not be lying or hiding anything from you...she should sit down and talk with you or break up with you or you guys should go to a counselor. this conversaiton (and cheting) is never an potion and is always wrong. Does she show any kind of remorse for what she did?







