Did my girlfriend cheat on me?

[Hawk]

luigiman5555 said:

happydolphin said:

luigiman5555 said:

radiantshadow92 said:
yup thats cheating

She told me she wasn't really going to sleep with him. Should I believe her? Why would she lie to him and even try to meet him though?

I'm on a dating site and I can tell you that's how the conversation goes. She may very well never have cheated with him, but she definitely wanted to. Does that mean she would have cheated, no. It just means she was pretty horny and you are not doing a good job at entertaining her sexual fantasies and need to work on yourself.

Sorry for the honest truth.

Then why did she meet him? He only wanted to sleep with her. She also told me she was going to sleep with him because he asked her to but then told me she wasn't really going to. The excuse actually changed a few times. If I was doing my job poorly then break up with me instead of cheating. It's as simple as that.

I thought you said you are not boyfriend and girlfriend.  If not, then there is not even the option of "breaking up" with you.  Nor is there even the ability to "cheat" on you.

luigiman5555 said:

We weren't officially boyfriend and girlfriend but we had promised to only sleep with each other. We were definitely in a closed relationship and therefore the same rules applied.

But ignoring that.  It's common for a woman to want a 'safe' man to always have around but then have fun with one or more 'bad boys'.  And if it's not that, then she is just keeping you around until she has a confirmed replacement for you.