Did my girlfriend cheat on me?

[luigiman5555]

happydolphin said:

luigiman5555 said:

Then why did she meet him? He only wanted to sleep with her. She also told me she was going to sleep with him because he asked her to but then told me she wasn't really going to. The excuse actually changed a few times. If I was doing my job poorly then break up with me instead of cheating. It's as simple as that.

Luigi, have you ever been on a dating site?

The simple truth is that often you meet people but nothing happens because there is no chemistry. That's what she means by she wasn't really going to. She wasn't really going to unless the guy was a bombshell and she wanted to satisfy her fantasies with him. It would have been exceptional rather than expected.

If she didn't break up with you instead of cheating, it means there's something about you she still wants. So you need to revise the contract or pull out then work on yourself.

So you agree that there was a chance she would've slept with him if he had shown up? That's still cheating. She told me very clearly the week prior that she still didn't want to kiss other guys. She told me that she still only wanted to sleep with me and everything seemed fine. She also told me that I was the best guy she ever slept with. Now I think she was just manipulating me because she wanted to sleep with a bunch of guys inclduing me. All she had to do was break up or convince me to be in an open relationship with her if she didn't want to be in a closed relationship with me anymore.