Did my girlfriend cheat on me?

[Baalzamon]

happydolphin said:

dahuman said:

I know it's easier for women to get laid :P I just see no point in the guy getting butthurt any more in this situation, and if it's the 4th year, ideally, bail, bail now!

:) If after 4 years she's unsatisfied, imagine with another woman, in a marriage, with all the frustrations it entails. Women are not superbeings, if luigi has problems pleasing or being in touch with his woman's fantasies, he will get nowhere (unless he were cripple in which case she'd have to love him just that way, but even then he could work on it by talking to her about sex and giving oral or something).

All I'm saying is the 4 years just strengthens my point, he needs to get in touch with her sexual desires and work on himself, and tell her that if she has any issues that she should tell him right away. Some people just aren't ready to do that, or the relationship doesn't foster it. It needs to be worked on in the end.

Just because what he is doing with her isn't working doesn't mean what he does with the woman he marries won't work. What I did with my ex worked like mad, I don't necessarily in any way expect that to work out just as well with my next gf.