Did my girlfriend cheat on me?

[dahuman]

happydolphin said:

luigiman5555 said:

Then why did she meet him? He only wanted to sleep with her. She also told me she was going to sleep with him because he asked her to but then told me she wasn't really going to. The excuse actually changed a few times. If I was doing my job poorly then break up with me instead of cheating. It's as simple as that.

Luigi, have you ever been on a dating site?

The simple truth is that often you meet people but nothing happens because there is no chemistry. That's what she means by she wasn't really going to. She wasn't really going to unless the guy was a bombshell and she wanted to satisfy her fantasies with him. It would have been exceptional rather than expected.

If she didn't break up with you instead of cheating, it means there's something about you she still wants. So you need to revise the contract or pull out then work on yourself.

Usually amounts to money or convenience. Also when 2 people are together a lot, it becomes an addiction to have the other person around too on a brain level so it's harder to just break away, it gives off a sense of safety and closure no matter how far away it is to the reality of the situation. What I'm trying to say is that he needs to fucking bail out right now.