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Somini said: Yeah, i'm glad there are others who think this way. I have a BF and have been very happy with him for the last 5 years. It's our own fault people think of us as promiscuous, which is for a lot people seen as disgusting, men and women. I like to look at a beautiful man just as much as the next gay guy lol. But you don't have to have sex with everyone you can. Not to say i am judging people who live this way. I just wish the gaypride wasn't full of gay men, and some women. The message gets lost when getting naked is the best thing you can do. I donno maybe i'm old fashioned :D |
I don't think that gay men are sluttier, than the breeders. Just the public perception of a gay guy = "one that takes it up the arse". They define "gay" with sex. I know gay guys and couples that don't actually enjoy "anal", but I as well know straight guys that do enjoy it. So that type of sex isn't exclusive to gay men. Just look at gay porn... Bunch of "straight" boys doing gay for pay.
And of course fact that all dating sites that cater to gay population are actually hook-up sites isn't helping that image either. Grindr, Jack'd, Scruff, Mister, Romeo... and many, many more. Sure not all guys on those sites are after sex, there are few that are trying to find someone "genuine" and those sites are their only door into gay community. But finding those individuals sometimes is like trying to find a Unicorn in enchanted forest. Not to mantion the sheer number of "straight" guys of all ages and shapes, that along with their wifes enjoy a bit "man on man" action... if it's discreet of cours *rolleyes*
