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c03n3nj0 said:
Mazty said:
JayWood2010 said:

I hear this same answer from guy after guy.  They tell me that they don't have the confidence to ask a girl out that they like or that they are afraid that she won't like you.  But here is my question, why be afraid?  You can't possibly be anymore single than you already are.  I also want to point out that if you are friend zoned that you most likely don't want to be in the situation so by not doing anything about it you are only hurting yourself.  Once again, you can't possibly be more single than you already are and we both know you aren't just looking to be her friend, so tell me your mindset behind this. 

True & I agree. But being British, the issue is finding someone worth anytime. Asking for someone that takes care of themselves physically, has confidence, ambition and hobbies I have found is akin to asking to touch the moon. 

Are you Northern or Southern? How are you finding the "female" situation in the UK?

Whoa, okay, so I'm moving to Edinburgh for college (nost probably)... I shouldn't be worried, should I? 

It may be better but yeah, be worried. Obesity here is through the roof as well as depression levels. Just remember the saying:
What you want from a woman - looks, intelligence, emotional stability.
Now pick two. 
That saying is very, very applicable over here from my experience.

 

amp316 said:
Self confidence is key. Women like you to have self confidence (without looking like an arrogant jerk).

In the UK confidence scares a lot of women. They think they want it but are scared when they see it. Can't win in some instances.