For all you single people

[Mazty]

Mr Khan said:

Mazty said:

Mr Khan said:
The logic here is true. If you're willing to abandon shame, then there's no real loss to trying the shotgun approach, unless you are so shameless that negative word of mouth spreads about you.

What does shame have to do with it? Surely it's to do with confidence and being secure in oneself so that rejection does not cause a problem for yourself?

That negative feeling you get from rejection is shame.

Perhaps "embarassment" would be a better word.

But if you are secure in yourself, you don't feel shame when you are rejected. Dissapointment sure, but not shame or embarrassment. 

If people are more confident and secure with themselves, then they'll be happier to approach women as they won't feel that rejection is a problem.