For all you single people

[Mr Khan]

Mazty said:

Mr Khan said:
The logic here is true. If you're willing to abandon shame, then there's no real loss to trying the shotgun approach, unless you are so shameless that negative word of mouth spreads about you.

What does shame have to do with it? Surely it's to do with confidence and being secure in oneself so that rejection does not cause a problem for yourself?

That negative feeling you get from rejection is shame.

Perhaps "embarassment" would be a better word.