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Good call my man! Nice to see a thread like this.

I used to be a bitch and never ask girls out or anything, but for around the last almost year or so I've been actively dating, asking girls out, etc. I've been friendzoned at least three times in that period and rejected a few times as well, and didn't have much success early on...but I stuck with it and as of about the past month or so it finally worked out and I think I have myself a keeper.

So definitely stick through it and don't be worried about rejection or the frienzone. It'll be worth it when you find a good one.

And also don't worry about possible awkwardness if you ask out someone you see a lot and they reject you. I asked a girl out in one of my classes that I see 3 times a week and she rejected me due to having a boyfriend already, and it doesn't matter, I just played it off and there's no awkwardness.

I'm not even remotely close to an expert in dating or whatever, but I can at least give people my advice/thoughts since I too was once too much of a pussy to ask girls out or anything.