I don't have a problem with some grinding, it just sounded like at a certain point it was almost 100% grind. Maybe I should get one of those WoW trials to check it out.
Do you think WoW would be the best for an MMO-newbie?
Oh, and I played some Diablo I/II online, that was fun...for a while.
What's RvR? I understand that PvP is Player vs Player, but not RvR.