d21lewis said:
No harm done. Heck, when I was first on VGChartz, I was horrible. I was a cop and that pretty much unleashed my inner monster upon the world. It's all chronicled, probably in this very thread if you want to filter through 10,000 posts or whatever. I actually became a pretty decent guy in June of 2009. Hadn't had a drink or messed with another woman since then. I just got weak. Still haven't had a drink, though.....for what it's worth. Just never was the type of person that hung out with lots of guys. I always liked hanging around females. All of the attention and innocent flirting made me feel special, I guess. |
Yay. I didn't know if it was out of snark or not. So I apologize to sales if that was not the intention.. but I like to sorta step up and say 'hey' if it's just somebody venting here...it doesn't seem really fair if the intent isn't right to knock on them. I gave it the benefit of the doubt after he said it was misunderstanding.
To me, cheating in a relationship is a sign of deeper problem... maybe deep down you wonder if this relationship will go anywhere and your doubt creates lack of faith, letting guard down, etc...my thing isn't cheating, but usually I pick up really quick if a relationship is not long-term, I tend to sabotage it one way or another... oh do I ever... it usually happens for me after about 6 months. I was with my husband for almost 8 years before we finally tied the knot, living together for almost that... but I wanted to be really sure about what we both wanted before we took that permanent step. People change a lot in their 20's.
I don't condone cheating, but it's not my place to judge and everyone has their reasons,circumstances,etc. I figured you were just venting anyway.
