If you are against gay marriage, explain why without mentioning religion

[the2real4mafol]

mai said:

the2real4mafol said:

I just want to know why people are against gay marriage for, but please try to explain why without mentioning anything religious. Gay marriage should be treated like an ordinary marriage, it's just 2 people who are happy together after all, that's no different to an ordinary marriage between a man and a women. Anyway, i want you to explain your beliefs on it without religion because people often mention religion while saying they are against gay marriage. Maybe there just ain't a non-religious argument against gay marriage at all

The problem is not in marriage itself, by now it's mostly a legal related term, but if homosexual (or whatever couple outside of traditional... really, my imagination goes further than just "gay couple") family should be allowed to become a foster parents, or any parenting at all in any shape or form. A sane society should decline such proposition. At least that's what, I believe, most people who said "no" would think.

Yeah just what i don't understand, this sort of thing has nothing to do with anyone but the individual concerned. So what if they are gay, let them marry or whatever you lot think it should be called, let them adopt children. As long as they are in a happy, bonding relationship between each other and there families, there is no reason to treat them any different to a more "traditional" family. This issue is personal and yet most people feel it's neccesary to make it something that concerns them.