Majora on 10 January 2013
| TheLastStarFighter said: Majora, you already have your answer from within yourself. You were hurt by the betrayal and now do not feel the same level of passion. You are a monogamist, and there's no way around it. The solution is not to lower your expectations, but to find someone who can meet them. Your current boyfriend never will. For many people, the feeling of being special and exclusively intimate with someone is wonderful. It's not about jealously but about valuing and being valued. Be true to yourself and find someone who will meet your emotional needs. |
Thank you so much for this post. It's so honest. And I think you're right. I just wish I could feel the way I did again before I found out. Funny thing is I don't blame him - I blame me. And even after all this time I sstill blame me. I don't love him anymore, but I wish I did. Is that sick? I feel so bad :(
