think-man said:
fordy said:
think-man said:
fordy said:
think-man said:
Im not against gay marriage, but I am against gays/lesbians having kids together. It's just not fare on the kids who will have to grow up in a house that is different from 95% of the population. |
So you'd prefer them to stay in orphanages where they feel like nobody loves them? What about to hetero couples that always fight, or are physically abusive? Would that be a better place to raise kids?
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Im more talking about when they give sperm and have another women bare there child, or lesbians getting a sperm donor to make themselves pregnant.
Nowadays ( Well at least in my country) the familys go through extensive investigation to make sure they are fit to adopt a child, as well as support workers dropping by every couple of weeks to make sure everythings fine.
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If they're going to a loving household, why should it make a difference?
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Because they will be brought up in a house thinking its normal for men to be together, kids at school will laugh and bully them if they found out.
Just read this: http://www.thepublicdiscourse.com/2012/08/6065/
Thats an inside view of a child growing up with gay parents.
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Are you saying the ends justifies the means? That gay couples cannot have children around because gay couples are looked down upon on society?
I'd say that's society's problem, not the problem of gay couples OR their kids. Society painted this image of them.
You don't think kids who were half white and half black received similar treatments back in an era of segregation? Society will adapt over time.
