If you are against gay marriage, explain why without mentioning religion

[fordy]

think-man said:

fordy said:

think-man said:
Im not against gay marriage, but I am against gays/lesbians having kids together. It's just not fare on the kids who will have to grow up in a house that is different from 95% of the population.

So you'd prefer them to stay in orphanages where they feel like nobody loves them? What about to hetero couples that always fight, or are physically abusive? Would that be a better place to raise kids?

Im more talking about when they give sperm and have another women bare there child, or lesbians getting a sperm donor to make themselves pregnant.

Nowadays ( Well at least in my country) the familys go through extensive investigation to make sure they are fit to adopt a child, as well as support workers dropping by every couple of weeks to make sure everythings fine.

If they're going to a loving household, why should it make a difference?