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DaRev said:
I'm a Christian, so,.....?

Anyways, legitimate question, are gay people born gay on the one hand or is it a lifestyle choice like loosing weight, or even choosing a religion on the other? Can gay people not be gay or is it the same as straight people not being straight? I ask because Christians are often divided on this topic.

Yes, we are born that way. I, at least, did not choose to be gay, but since I am it is my choice on whether or not I act upon those feelings. Which I have and will. It's good times.