I was once with an older women (around 45) who was mostly into women. She was going down on me when suddenly a finger went an inch a so in the wrong direction in the wrong place.
After my initial 'WTF' reaction, she apologized profusely, continued on her initial intent (going down) and spent the next week or so apologizing for what she called being 'lost in the moment' because she's usually with women and that's normal behavior.
Physically I felt violated and recoiled. Psychologically I felt accepted as she was as relaxed with me as was with normal lovers.
What worries me is that in a decade or so that I'll need to let a doc do the same for medical purposes. And it will likely be a he rather than she and my testicles won't be getting special treatment at the time.
The rEVOLution is not being televised
