I married early, got divorced after 8 years and then went for a long time (12 years) without any serious relationship. Partly out of choice, largely because I couldn't find a woman that I wanted to be in a relationship with or vise-versa when I did.
Finally found one, then another and then a third (sorta). Went back and married the second.
Know what you want and don't be afraid to chase it when you find it. Don't settle for less. There will be lean years. Enjoy the casual sex. Your time will come.







