The great thing about women is that relationships can always be salvaged. You can rekindle the flame even years later because they will always have a soft spot for you. You just have to play your cards right if that's what you really want. Me, I'm not fond of dating women with kids. Just a hang-up I have, but I know a lot of guys that date women with kids and they are really happy in their relationships. It's all about want YOU want to do.