Cub on 26 November 2012
| burninmylight said: *Sigh* I voted 0.5, because while my girlfriend and I live together and I have full access, I find myself with no desire to touch her lately. We've been staying together for six months now, and while we love each other, seeing each other every day for most of the day has been a stressful experience that is killing my desire for passion and intimacy. Just last night she forced me into a conversation on why we're not doing it more, and I had to admit that I'd rather just quietly please myself than build up the drive to initiate sex. She admitted she's been thinking of sex with another partner to meet her needs (sexual needs that were nigh unexistant for our first two years being together). Now I'm wondering how much of a future we have together and if we should seperate, or if I just need to get my act together and give her more attention. If you read my whiny, emo rant in the above paragraph, you have my sincerest thanks whether you choose to respond or not. It's nice to have someone listen who doesn't think my relationship is or is supposed to be "just perfect." |
This is vgc area of expertise, I am sure someone will respond!
