Is this about marriage in a church or marriage in a registry office (I have no idea how the marriage procedure is in the states so excuse me if the question makes no sense. In my country there is the above mentioned seperation church and "registry office")
If its for the registry office one im totally okay with it. But If its for the church one well I dunno.
Lets say you are really into religion and you "obey" the rules then you can actually not be gay since men belong to women and being gay is against the "rules".
So you ignore a rule and then still want to marry inside a church? Makes no sense to me people need to be consistent not switch sides etc. ( You cant just accept the parts of the religion that suit your current lifestyle... and ignore the rest) Built your own type of mosque/church/synagogue ;) or "rent" a castle or some other romantic place.
And if you dont care about religion there is no way you should be able to marry inside a church anyway.
So thats what I dont understand.
