| happydolphin said: Okay guys, here's the scoop. I've been paying attention to my physical attractions, and this is what I've noticed about myself. I developed some kind of unexpected disinterest in women lately. I've always noticed that I enjoy the male physique, I like to see a good looking man, but find it completely repulsive to think of getting sexual with a man, bar certain punctual fantasies. So, when I look at a dressed man of a proportionate figure, I feel fuzzy warm. I feel cold when I think of a beautiful woman. What is going on with me, and have any heteros here experienced something similar? Please don't judge. I'm beginning to think that lust fucked everything up, have any of you experienced anything similar? Since I want to get that warm vibe with women again, I'm planning on chasing lust completely from my life, since I feel the warm fuzzier for men, yet I don't lust over them. What do you all think? |
Good news is yes...you can definately be attracted to men and not want to actually have sex wtih them...there's nothing wrong with it either...there's nothing wrong with commenting on a guy being attractive, and there is nothing wrong with giving it a shot and seeing if its for you...truth be told, most men have at some point in time, its just not until the last decade or so that it started becoming a bit more socially acceptable to talk about it with other men...but if you talk to some of your more liberal lady friends, you'll probably find that a decent amount of her male friends have probably confided that they are attracted to men in some fashion, or they [her male friends not her] have had some kind of sexual relationship with at least one male...sexuality is a complicated beast my friend and you'll never clear the confusion until you give it a shot and see what makes you tick and don't be surpirsed if it changes back and forth...most of us are biologically bi-sexual anyways...
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