No offense OP, but what makes you think you have some authorative right to ask this question? From what I take it, you are neither homosexual or interested in the concept further than asking generalized questions regarding this topic. Do you think this debate is going to be successfully resolved in this high-stakes vgchartz forum?
You know full well that there is going to be hateful vitriol spewed in all directions regarding this issue, so I want know: what is your aim with this thread? If it's clarification regarding a deeply personal matter, then take it up with your shrink. If its to shine a light on a much-maligned minority, this is not the way to do so, as you know countless individuals are waiting to strike with their anti-gay rhetoric. This doesn't further discussions about sexuality, it just plants people in different camps causing hatred and ignorance.
I appreciate that your intentions are probably pure, but us in the gay community don't need your justifications to go on living a content life. Why don't you take a backseat and try and enjoy your life in a similar fashion, one where who you are (gay, straight, bi, whatever) isn't constantly called upon in need of defending itself in whatever socio-political manner you appear to see fit for public consumption.
Just wanted to say my piece, I don't see why we are so obsessed about whose thing goes in where. Homosexuality just IS so let's accept it and move on with it, or is your purpose to find some definitive logic with which you can judge others by?
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