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JazzB1987 on 12 October 2012
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pezus said:
JazzB1987 said:
There is no way to find out because there is no gene or brain defect or whatever. It is because of the way someone lived their life. The friends, family and experience etc shape the personality.
If you grow up with alot of sisters and played with barbies when you were little or if you were forced to watch e.g Sailor Moon because your older sister occupied the livingroom alot etc and you are shy and fail at getting a girlfriend etc chances are you will end up gay easier than a person with only brothers that is not shy and who watched Ninja Turtles and had no problems getting a girlfriend etc.

A "gay gene" has been found in other animals (fruit flies). Who is to say something similar will happen in humans eventually? Do you actually have something that supports that there is "no way to find out" or are you just saying that because you don't believe it?


I read about it but I have no idea where it was.

Let me give you another example. Lets say you are like 22 years old and you always had problems finding friends the same age you are.  Back when you were 17-18 and your puperty ended most of your friends were like 13-15 instead of 18. Your brain "learned" that you like 15 year people. Chances are higher that you will find 15 year girls more attractive than 22 year old girls.

Your taste is not shaped only by your taste at the end of puperty but its a part of your taste that wont go away. This does not mean you wont find 30 year olds attractive etc  it just means there is a natural attraction for 15 year old.

Same goes for being gay. When you had alot of contact with the same sex during the puberty (huging even if you didnt mean it to be "gay") and it didnt end before your puperty ended your brain automatically  links  same sex to happiness. You will easier be gay than a person that just had "normal" relations to the same sex. But it still depends alot on other factors but the same sex attraction is there now.


Another example like this is.  Lets say you are a girl and you have a really good relation to your dad. Your future husband might have a similar look because you unconcious chose someone that reminds you of your dad.  A girls first love is usually her dad (obviously not when the father is an idiot)