ManUtdFan on 30 July 2012
| SaviorX said: As a Type C (!!!) I say hell yes you can change. However change requires two very important and extremely diffficult things. 1) You have to want it bad enough. Usually, you only want to change when you lose something very important to you, and use the loss as motivation. Whatever mdrives people to change is usually a large chip they have on their shoulder. Used in the right way it can serve as an edge to keep them going! Change also comes if your life literally depends on change, however even potential/imminent death won't make some people change, which leads to my next point. 2) You have to be intelligent. That's right. You must be smart enough to know when you have a problem, and then acknowledge the steps it will take to resolve the issue.You have to be able to research, roll with the punches, and motivate yourself to do better with specific strategies so that you can stay focused in your goal when things get difficult. CLOSE-MINDED people will NEVER EVER change no matter what you do or say to them. They are always set in their ways and would rather complain or find quick fix schemes of an informercial nature than do the work necessary for change. 'I've made it, I know it all" is their mantra. In this world, people are very pessismistic, and I understand why. Life is hard, it ebbs and flows, and most of the time we have to struggle. But when we persevere through those struggles the success is so sweet. However, do not ever let anyone tell you that you cannot change. No one defines your limitations except for you (and maybe God if you believe). Love is fake. God aint real. Why marry when divorce rates are so high? People will tell you anything to make humanity seem like a worthless endeavor.But if you are head over heels for a girl right for you, your God has blessed you with health and determination, and your parents/relatives stuck it out in marriage for over 25 years, those people speaking against you can pucker up those lips and munch cock. -SaviorX |
Wow, this spoke to me personally. Being a type C feels like a mental prison sometimes. I think it's especially important for us folk to have a definitive life purpose, worded mission statement- to keep inspiring us to come up with new goals, otherwise depression, anxiety, neurosis will set in.
