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NotStan said:
Gilmour said:

I am a virgin an I am 17.  I've met a lot of nice girls recently!  Speak with all your female coworkers and women you see!  Hang out with them more often.  The more girls you hang out with, the more likely you will find a girlfriend and have a serious relationship.  I was so shy before, I couldn't even have eye contact, touch a girl or even talk with them.  Now, people at work call me the Casanova because I talk with all the new girls there xD

I don't care anymore about my virginity as I used to do.  But if it's really a problem for you, stop complaining and go meet some new people!

Sorry for my bad English btw!

That is true. Since I started working I've grown a lot more confident, and interact with girls all the time. Now that brings me to the big problem - all of them seem to friendzone me by default. Not sure what it is about me, probably too nice to people. But yeah, I've made a lot more female friends at work - including the one that offered the whole friends with benefits thingy majigy.

Yeah I've been friendzoned a lot too.  But my overall life seems much happier now.  I'm not the looser I used to be, playing CoD for 4 hours straight.  I met this girl at work, we have so much in common.  We met 2 weeks ago and people asked us if we were friends since elementary school!!!  People at work want me to ask her out, but she has a boyfriend!  That's breaking my heart!  I promised myself that I would not interfer in their couple.  This girl is now a really good friend, but it's still hurting me.  I try to move on :(