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If proper preparation is taken, such as using an enema, then anal sex is clean. You can have anal sex with someone who isn't prepared, but for everyone involved, especially if you plan to engage in vaginal sex after, its best to use a condom. Oral sex given anally must be done with a properly prepared partner, meaning a thorough enema and a shower. Depending on your size, amount of lube, and preparation, anal sex can be bloody. The first time, it's something that has to be done slow and gently.

Again, without a partner that is prepared or willing, anal sex is extremely messy. Otherwise, its clean.

As for how it feels, that depends on if you're giving or receiving. If you're giving it's typically tighter. For receiving, the anus has a lot of nerve endings, so with more experience it feels good. For men, the prostate gland is reached via the rectum. Some people refer to the prostate gland as the male G-Spot because of the same, powerful orgasms that are produced and the fact that with prolonged stimulation, multiple consecutive orgasms can be achieved.