Ok, if somebody gets harmed by the way people live, then sure it's not legit. People still have to be responsible, specially if they have kids and wife.
On the other hand, they're still free to choose what they do with their free time, and all options are valuable, as long as the person is comfortable with it and noboby gets harmed. Maybe the "loser" has more fun playing a game than the "cool guy" has dating a girl...








