Anyone want to get married?

[Mr Khan]

Jumpin said:

Mr Khan said:
In terms of me trying, the process isn't really going to start until i feel i am in a stable job, which may take a while. I mean, i do tend to like living with people if only to have someone to talk to, so it seems like marriage would be a nice thing to have

I always keep my eyes open for interesting girls (who are actually fricking available, if anyone recalls my thread lamenting the lack of singles my age), but i won't actively start seeking people until i have my own life in order.

Go younger then, 18-23 girls are a dime every 3 dozen. Just keep screwing around until you find one who you like sharing everything with, and whI likes sharing everything with you. I think you will know quickly whether or not she is right to marry; but I think before you know you are right you have to have plenty experience with women who are wrong - which can be fun too, but not nearly as rewarding =P

I've been married for years now and have two children. Marriage is the easy and fun part, children is the very difficult part, but I'm a way, it can creates an even more rewarding relationship. 

With the above people, I disagree, don't wait until getting the stable job, that turns your life into a boring process like a women's magazine. Find your wife when you fall in love. It is easier to get a stable job when you have a stable relationship.

As i said, i'm not ignoring the possibilities as life goes on (pay attention to all girls i meet and don't close myself off), i just don't want to take on the burden of managing the scramble for a career and the scramble for a long-term relationship at the same time. Plus i'm one of those people in that inverse position where i've worked hard to make myself desirable for employers at the expense of not working all that hard to make myself desirable for the opposite sex, so the one task should be easier than the other, though both require a fair bit of luck.