Thank you for re-reading that Happy.
I can say for myself that my anger was very misplaced, and well, shouldn't have appeared in the first place. What appeared to be happening is that we got off on a tangent somehow, and while what you were saying did make sense, we were thinking about two different things, and it wasn't fair of me to demonize you.
I will also be working on my tact in teh future :D