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Yes and No.

I have tried for years to find a single girl that has any moral fiber. I finally found one but am scared to death of asking her out. She is fairly successful and I am a unemployed disabled guy with no car you do the math I don't have a shot in hell.

However I have been asked out five times in the last few years. I weighted nearly 300 lbs. Now how did I get asked out? I was depressed over a girl and would got out to the smaller bars with friends. I would always ask the bartender "I wanna get fucked up what's your strongest drink? It was often 151 then he would pour a shot but I would demand a glass and it he filled.

Well every two or three times I was in the bar a girl would come up out of know where start talking to me. Three different times I got numbers and the girls telling me to call them so we could go out. Problem I didn't approach these girls they approached me I also had no interest in them they were modestly attractive with one pretty attractive but she was dressed extremely slurry and it was snowy outside.

I also got offered one night stands, though I of course declined surprised I didn't get slapped because I often made comments about wanting to remain a virgin and not give it to someone like you.

In the end if I wanted to get laid or a date I could always start drinking again. I never got asked out at big bars or clubs however. Just the small ones with like twenty people. Also got asked out at the swimming pool once and over Facebook.

Fact is every decent girl is dating, engaged or married. I finally found a girl to ask and I like her but as I said I have shit all to offer and doubt very much I would have a shot. She is a great Christian girl and I know she might say yes on compassionate grounds. But I have nothing to offer and have never even been on a date.



-JC7

"In God We Trust - In Games We Play " - Joel Reimer