I updated the op to include the general types of games that I am interested in. I would play Gear of War 1-3 and Alan Wake but outside of those barring Kinect games like sports, and the exercise one I have no interest to play them.
For me its about the multi-platform games performing better, a better online experience, and having an aspect to the system that my gf can enjoy (not that watching me play uncharted 2 wasnt fun :P).
I dont want to waste money and regret my decision because I am still a student after all.
Anyways by now I probably sound like a madman so ill give it a rest as my eyelids are slowly closing (4am over here)