So about I week ago I invited a couple people to a party, including a couple mutuals friend of me and my Ex. A few days later she gets a text from one of said friends asking if she is coming to the party, she then texts me multiple times asking for an invite, I didn't want her to come (I'll tell you why in a second) but I didn't want her too feel offended so I gave her the excuse of "too many people are coming already". That night I told her friend some details about the party on a blog (dailybooth), which my ex then saw.
She called me the following morning telling me how that wasn't a nice thing to do to her, she said I should of told her friend in private (even though me and my ex are not friends) and my reason for her not coming is crap. After a couple minutes of pestering I was fed up and I asked her if she wanted to know the real reason why I didn't want her to come, she ofcourse said yes and I told her it's because she can be slutty and high-maintenance, especially when she is drunk. I didn't want to tell her this in the first place because firstly, I didn't want to upset her and secondly, she will get very emotional about it, people will ask her whats wrong and I'll come across as a dick for having an opinion.
So the day after that I went onto her tumblr expecting to find a post about that, and not to my surprise, she posted something along the lines of "Yay, I'm a slutty high-maintenance trap", which she obviously made so people will ask her why and then I'll come across as an arsehole in her story. So I texted her asking her not to do things like that about me.
My question is was the way I handled it wrong?
Was I a dick to her or is she really just being well, high-maintenance? If so, how could I handle situations like this better?
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