Jay520 on 22 September 2011
| Johann said: That's ridiculous. I don't try to change people by being nice to them, but I don't do it by treating them badly either. If someone's behavioural pattern bothers you, stop interacting with that person. They won't change and you shouldn't demand them to. |
Read the OP again. It doesn't tell the abusee to treat the abuser with the same abuse. It advices the abusee to attempt to assert his unhappiness with the abuser's actions.
