| padib said: If she does that she is stupid as fuck and you shouldn't have married her in the first place. For people who wait for marriage to have sex, the trend is to practice with your partner till you make it. I for one lost my virginity last year and I was doing very well. The practice argument is terribly overrated. For the record I'm not married, not divorced, but that's beside the point. The best I believe is to marry mature but young if possible. So, people need to grow up sooner imo, like in the older times. Find a partner who is passionate for you and you are passionate for. Grow in maturity as soon as possible (early teens), marry young and things should go well. Our society has become too boring for marriage to endure though, it was better when people lived under tipiis and had to fight to survive. Now people have too much useless shit to worry about. |
I don't think marrying young is too good of an idea now a days (sure it works sometimes, one of my sisters married her high school boyfriend), maybe back in the early 1900s. When I was 16-20 I was very immature (even though I still am now at 29). The divorce rate is pretty damn high and shows you how much of a joke marriage has become in our society. I really don't care about starting a family right now because even if I wanted to I couldn't (I can barely support myself). Marriage doesn't define a relationship. One can perfectly happy to be in a relationship for many years and not be married. While another can be married for many years and go through pure hell. It is the relationship that matters not a document stating you are together. I've been in an on and off relationship for almost 3 years now with a 44 year old Asian. I am not the best to speak on relationship matters but it is easy to point out that marriage only works about half of the time.
