i behave same everywhere
just that when you have a debate in real life,you go ligthly but on internet and especially on forums where i know people know equally so i debate in full go
in real world,its hard to find people of the same interest so i just let them go
until last year i was shy in real life but now i have become very blunt,i just realised the world doesn't care so i stopped caring and just go with what i want rather than be what is right for everyone as people don't appreciate it and i wasn't moving forward