| Joelcool7 said: Well this depends whether you mean physical attraction or emotional. Emotionally I am attracted to girls who care about others. Mainly girls I see who help others whether it be helping disabled people, feeding poor working with kids or youth. A girl who will come up to me and take a general interest in me. I rarely get interested in a girl who doesn't care about others and myself. But if a girl cares enough to help others or take an interest in me by showing me kindness and such I am attracted to those types of girls. Also girls who have dealt with similiar circumstances to myself, foster child, dealt with depression, Christian and of course video gamer or nerd. Of the three girls I have genuinely been attracted to on more then a physical basis 1. Dealt with depression and was a very strong Christian 2. Was a foster kid, worked with youth and also dealt with depression and other things I have 3. Was a complete nerd, a female version of myself
As for girls I am physically attracted too. The only two physical features that determine most if I am attracted to a girl. Her face being the first, I don't care if the girl has no boob's is a bit chubby or such if she has a cute , pretty or adorable face, I am probably going to be attracted to her. Second is the belly, more so then boobs or butt or legs or any other physical feature besides the face. If a girl has a good looking stomach waste line I am attracted immensley. Does this mean skinny only, no not nescessarily I have been attracted to chubbier girls bellies as well. However its true I don't find obese girls bellies or any part other then face attractive. As for type of girl Style , I seem attracted to girl's who don't wear make up. Even girls I find attractive with make up I am more attracted to when they have it off. As such I'm not attracted as much to the barbie doll girls many find attractive. My favorite hair colour is Brown and darker brown/black. Honestly I am not that attracted to blondes (Except Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera). I rarely find them attractive though my first real crush was on a blonde girl. Racially my prefered race is Eastern European. Out of all the girls I have personally had crushes on the majority of them have been from Ukraine or Danish (Not sure if thats eastern enough) Russian. Making Eastern European my prefered girl as far as sexual attraction goes. However close behind I like latina's , other european girls. Japanese girls I also find attractive and Chinese but am not that attracted to most other asian girls. I also am not attracted very often to Native or African girls though I must admit I find Beyonce and Rihanna highly attractive.
In the end my sexual attraction does not trump emotional. A girl I had a major crush on and had major feelings for was covered in zits wore glasses and was native (Which I usually don't find attractive). Infact when I got to know her I wasn't really attracted to her physically I was more emotionally. But after being friends a while I grew physically attracted. So to me physical is important if I ever marry a girl I will have to be physically attracted to her. But emotional comes first and physical usually follows regardless of my usual desires. In other words the key to my heart is a girls heart, not her body. Though body helps but is really not the deciding factor in wether I am attracted to a girl or not! |
yea right. the world revolves around looks,not personaility.
