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Wonktonodi said:
Pemalite said:

Wonktonodi said:

In some ways yes. In other ways no. I have many other issues with my life I've had to deal with since then and although I think I could be with a guy again I don't know if I'm really in a state where a guy would want to be with me.


Mate, that sucks to have everything going so right in life... Then in an instant have it all go so wrong!

Also... Don't worry about whether a guy would want to be with you or not, people are as varied as the colours of the rainbow, if you feel you're ready to move on, then someone out there would indeed be willing!

Maybe I should specify the state I'm in at the moment. Unemployed nor currently in school and living with my parents. So what I was saying there is I need to get my own act together. Just really hard to find the motivation most  days.


I see....

Don't worry dude. I think the hardest part is over.

Just know It will always hurt when you remember him that's for sure but with time it will hurt less and less. You can and should start hoping and working on your future. You are still younge and from what I gathered you are very nice guy.

Go out on dates and meet people. Even if you think you are not ready. Listen to them and look at their lives, they will get you thinking and you will get inspired and motivated. It doesn't help that you are an introvert but try