Wonktonodi said:
TruckOSaurus said:
Roma said:
Rule number 22: Never think your in a relationship until you talk about it with the other person.
I know you might have fallen in love with they guy but it is better to know rather than think you are in a relation. So if your afraid of losing the guy you will anyway if in the end the other guy does not want a relation. So the sooner you talk about it the better. This way you will know if the guy wants more time or does not want it at all.
Rule number 101: Long distance never work out :P
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Rule #101 is not true. I've done a great deal of long distance with my boyfriend. The 2 first years, he was finishing school and lived at his parents 2h30 away (we saw each other every weekend) and later after having lived together for a year, he got a job offer (that he couldn't refuse) and we spent another 2 years living apart during weekdays (once again we made the effort of seeing each other every weekend even though we lived 4 hours away).
So long distance relationships can work but both partners need a car :P
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I guess that depends on how one defines long distance. For you or him having to drive 2:30 or 4 hours can feel like a long distance. But I'm talking about people who even if I was on a plane for 4 hours I wouldn't have traveled far enough. The times that you list I partially did at the end of my first relationship. Right idea but wrong man to be doing it with. As for my last relationship it was like an hour and a half.
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Well that kind of long distance, I don't think I could have dealt with either. There's a minimum amount of time a couple has to spend together to make it work.
