Facebook used to be "cool"

[sethnintendo]

Baalzamon said:

sethnintendo said:

NiKKoM said:
I rarely use it anymore cause this girl kept "liking" everything I did.. then she started tagging me in photos while I wasn't even in the photo... It was really scary cause friends of her were thinking that I was her boyfriend and they tried adding me as their friend.. I got scared for my real gf cause this crazy girl could harm her.. so I decided to use my facebook much less..

I've heard a few stories from co workers of getting into trouble from Facebook (girlfriend/boyfriend seeing comments, etc).  There are plenty of obsessive people out there and I am sure plenty of relationships have been ruined just because of Facebook.

I'm sure plenty of relationships have started because of it too, but you ignore that aspect.  Not to mention, what is it about Facebook that is "ruining" these relationships?  Is it a naughty picture that the girl or guy shouldn't have seen?  Well maybe they shouldnt have been together anyways.  Is it an obsessive guy or girl?  Well if somebody can't get over this fact and be trustful with their boy/girlfriend, maybe they shouldn't have been together in the first place.

Also, thought I would mention, my profile (I just looked again, to make sure) has it so only my friends can tag me in stuff.  If somebody is being obsessive, delete them from your friends list.  Not only this, you can specifically go into your privacy settings, and not let specific friends do things on your profile.

Sounds like a lot of micro managing.  I know they somewhat improved the privacy page but it probably is still scattered throughout numerous pages.  It is like they want it to be hard to locate everything just so the average users won't even try.  Hell, I couldn't even find out how to delete my account till I finally found the page from Google.  They make it easy as hell to disable your account but to actually delete it you almost have to jump through hurdles on their page to find the right link.