LGBT Relationship Thread

[Roma]

naruball said:

Roma said:

axumblade said:
Still in my relationship. about to hit the 5 year mark in October.Time flies by way too fast. I remember first crushing over him. >_<

Nice! And congratulations! :D

OT:

I have been single for about 1 and a half years now after a 9 month relation. My first actually and from it I learned why so many people don’t want relationships. You think you know someone and you trust them and love them with all your heart and in the end they are not worth it. All lies and mistakes that should be obvious and should not be made.

Some people see gay life as a different thing than when a woman and a man love each other. I’m not into that “open relationship” stuff and “cheating and then be forgiven” stuff.

After I broke up I found that life is soo much more fun with no guy to worry about. All that “I have to call” and “why has not replied to my msg o call yet”. Love is work and I can’t handle it and the rest of the tings in my life at the same time. I hope I can find a way to balance them both…. :P

I have only had a relationship with one guy and one girl in my life (and I'm 25 which is kind of pathetic imho, but anyway) and every time they would start complaining about that kind of stupid things I would make it perfectly clear that I can't be with someone who is worried about that kind of stuff and does not trust me. And I've always been extremely faithfull, even though I spent a lot of time apart with both of them and could have easily had random hook-ups.

Being alone makes me really sad to be honest :( though I'd rather do that than be with someone towards whom I'm not attracted or doesn't care much about me. Whenever I hear people complain about small things or having their heart broken I always get angry (like wanna switch places dude/girl?).

Unfortunately I'm only attracted to straight guys and all the gay guys I've met are quite camp (which is fine, I'm just not attracted to them). Same with my ex bf, he worshipped Madonna, Cher etc.

One thing I don't get from people who complain about being lied to or cheated on is how do they do not see that their partner is not being sincere with them. I can always tell when someone is upset with me or does not care much about me.

Well that’s just the reason, I had just lost trust in him.

There is always a reason for everything :P its not like I was like that from the start until it ended. I would have dumped me as soon as possible if it was like that.

All of this happened 4 months in the relation. Lies started to happen and phones unanswered or msg ignored. All for pointless reasons.

I am faithful as a partner and I expect that in return and when you say you are deeply in love you should act like you are. For me once trust is lost it is impossible to restore. I might forgive but never do I forget.

You shouldn’t be sad about being alone man. Hopefully he will come when the time is right :)  

Yeah I am attracted to straight/straight acting guys as I am myself. I actually told three straight friends I liked them and that was before they knew I was gay :P