Seece said:
Roma said:
axumblade said:
Still in my relationship. about to hit the 5 year mark in October.Time flies by way too fast. I remember first crushing over him. >_< |
Nice! And congratulations! :D
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I have been single for about 1 and a half years now after a 9 month relation. My first actually and from it I learned why so many people don’t want relationships. You think you know someone and you trust them and love them with all your heart and in the end they are not worth it. All lies and mistakes that should be obvious and should not be made.
Some people see gay life as a different thing than when a woman and a man love each other. I’m not into that “open relationship” stuff and “cheating and then be forgiven” stuff.
After I broke up I found that life is soo much more fun with no guy to worry about. All that “I have to call” and “why has not replied to my msg o call yet”. Love is work and I can’t handle it and the rest of the tings in my life at the same time. I hope I can find a way to balance them both…. :P
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It's rare for first time love to ever work out, you just have to learn from it and move on. Every time you get knocked it really does make you stronger and wiser, and hopefully not cynical with it! I feel like a different person after my 3rd failed relationship, and the stuff I would put up with before, I wouldn't dream of putting up with now.
Don't give up on love though, you just need to find someone who's in the same boat as you and appreciates the true meaning of what it is to be in a relationship, then you'll end up like axumblade and Truck!!
Or you can become absurdly picky like me and spend years single 
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You know many tell me this
Yes I’ve actually become very picky but for the better. Take longer dating periods and if the other person wants to rush it I just end it as I never rush in to things if I’m not ready.
I think it is sad that when you treat a person well they take advantage of it and think you will never leave them. That’s what I used to get from my ex.
But I always think there are people who deserve this but the thing is when you get knocked down so many times it is hard to give those same feelings to anybody even though that person might actually deserve it all.
But it is all for the better I guess. Who knows what’s waiting out there I always think.
