Why are all the good women taken?

[ultraslick]

I find this so sad. Similar to your situation, My best friend is now 25 and has never really had a real girlfriend and is still a virgin. He just recently got on a dating website of some kind.
My friends and I have tried to offer suggestions and help whenever possible in the past but.. I dont get it, its unexplainable.
He gets depressed about it, and it is a vicious cycle I think,
He went to college even, but he says all of his classmates were just other nerdy guys since he was in engineering, so no luck there.

By contrast, I also went to college and majored in architecture, so lots of girls were always around. I always liked having conversations with girls, and (as a straight guy) I have always had a lot of friends who are girls. To be honest there was always a cornucopia of fun women around me. My approach was always a mix of platonic friendship mixed with casual flirting.. girls love this- as long as they are familiar with who you are in the first place. They love to talk about themselves and I honestly find it interesting.. most of the time.

Point is, you have to be in a scenario where there are girls around you. not just randomly-but the same women over and over. Maybe at work there are women that you can get to know. Day after day you can become friends with these women, even if they are taken.
You can go to lunch with these taken women with no intention of ever being more than friends.
And then you can make it known that you are single and looking- there for maybe these other women can hook you up with their friends or whoever.
Also just a tip, dont ever seem desperate in the early stages of getting to know a girl. Play it cool.

A third tip, most girls have no bottom level for acceptance of what their guy looks like. You always see gorgeous women with ugly dudes, so dont worry about what you look like, even if you were hideous (which your not) you could still land a hot chick.

Also another tip, watch Californication.. thats just a good show and could help you out I think.
And yeah alot of girls are taken, but thats just because nobody wants to be alone. Get to know them anyways, get them laughing, talk with them, we're all just human- even these "taken" girls.