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i can never see this facebook pic of yours as i'm not on facebook,i really hope you find someone soon and we can rejoice on vgc,it always makes me sad your story,have you really not had a relationship/dated normally or did i read that wrong,

you are not alone as this happens to lots of men,we get stuck out on the fringe unfortunately,it is different when you get over 30,not the same advice for when you are at schools/college,you obviously don't meet women through work which would be the modern way to meet women as a community way of life dwindles in the west

honestly i know how you feel,do you have trouble meeting women period or just can't date women you meet because i'd say they are 2 different issues,i saw the fattest man in the world get married on telly and he can't even stand up and murderer's doing life get in relationships/married

my point is you have to be in a community/work/club/church/nlghtschool whatever it takes,i don't know many women who like loners or how you'd meet one who does,you might have to meet new friends and become part of a social group because apart from work i can't see another way,you might have to put in the ground work and not online somewhere local to you

i understand you know all this and its obvious,most women are social creatures and feel safe there so you have to get amongst them and be patient,it comes so easy to some men that they don't understand and no point listening to them

anyway good luck and keep plugging away,it will happen eventually if you put yourself in the right situations ie socially active around women consistently,you reap what you sow,or win the lottery

that guy above who said going to the gym and working out is probably good advice too,feeling fit and healthy won't hurt at all



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