The Sissy Boy Experiment and Why You Can't "Cure" the Gay

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elticker said:

(1) - whats wrong with the bold, i didn't mean it in the way you imagine it to be, cause i can't get the video of fireworks where the guy kisses the other guy without even asking him which is what i meant i would be physical if that happened however if he asks me out i would say no. why should the mods ban me for please enlighten me?

(2) - How does me not knowing about some sexaul identity experiments make me know very little about science. I don't know if you have ever had your father hit you alot when you were young however i have and i think i know about it more than you ever will from some studies since i was a subject and i never said the physical pain does anything. My dad once hit me for opening alot of seven up bottles cause there was the you might win a car thing, the problem is though that i have mixed feelings when i remember it. he also hit me really hard when i mistakedly dropped about 50 eggs which broke em and i remember that as being the most painful experience i have ever had, he threw me against the cement wall so hard, it makes me feel angry just trying to remember it. I have tryed my best to forgive him and i forgave him for alot of things he has done so physical abuse can be treated if you are ready to forgive.

 

(3) - I don't believe in physical pain and i believe if you want to change you have to be ready to do alot of effeort into it, i don't believe anything is fixed it is however up to your determination and effort. As i have forgiven my father by my effort, i don't regret anything i have did in my life as i have learned from it alot, except for one or two things.

 

(4) - the middle part about him having gay relationship i never knew as i have just seen the video and read the paragraphs the op posted so i cannot coment, i still don't understand why he commited suicide cause he was having a good gay relationship with that indain guy so what made him comit it?

 

 

(5) - I just outlined what i would have improved in the experiment and never said the experiment was right to begin with. you got a pretty bad picture about me from you interpretting what i am saying in another way than i intended it to be interpretted in. hope you the best

(1) - Unless he tries to rape you or assault you, you should not become physically violent.

(2) - Damn, I actually wanna hug you now. My father wasn't around when I was growing up, and my mom didn't hit me because I was the perfect child (her words, not mine, I'm not bragging). You were just a kid though, what he did was grousome. He should've been sent to jail for abuse. I have a very defiant nature, and had I been in your situation I would've eventually fought back. Definately would've never forgiven him, I don't know why you did that.

(3) - There are some things you can't change (like sexual orientation), and you shouldn't even try to change these things because they're what make you be you, and not someone else. Honestly, society's attempts to standardize people sicken me.

(4) - He had gay relationships, but the results of this experiment was that he hated himself for the rest of his life. He lived his whole life thinking that he was "wrong" and "defective" (a natural result of the torture he had to endure, because he was probably thinking "people are willing to humiliate and hurt me just because of the way I am"). It was not his first suicide attempt, and as his sister said, it's a wonder he made it to 38.

(5) - The experiment had false premises (that being gay is caused by environmental factors), so the only way to "improve" it is to scrap it alltogether.