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trasharmdsister12 said:

I'm sorry I didn't reply to this sooner. I have no excuse really other than I'm a horrible person and I forgot. Any word yet? Also.. where in Canada?

And looking stupid is actually one of my biggest fears. I've always been academically pressured so it's just sort of ingrained in my personality not to do anything that would make me appear stupid. It sucks because it has restricted my fun in a lot of situations but I just can't let go like some people and do what I want to do. So I definitely agree with what you say about life being more interesting if you just do and act as you want... It's just that I have an extremely hard time doing so.

 

Heh it's ok. And no, no words yet. In Quebec, that's where I'm from. All of my family is there. Being so far from them is a little harder than I thought it would be but life is like that, sometimes you have to make hard decisions and then cope with it.

Well I understand you, and those words might look like confidence but in reality it's a way to give myself confidence. Thinking positive and acting silly just makes it that closer to my goal of being rid of social phobia and feeling comfortable being myself around people.

So yeah, just try a little bit, you'll see it's not that bad. X3 And if people don't like it and look at you funny, then they're not worth being with. Or at least, that's what I think (and hopefully do).