the_bloodwalker said:
My piece of advice : never ask her about it again.
many girls are undecisive when the guy they like is asking about it. They have their reasons among them
- After it, then what?
- is he with me for just that?
- I want to test his patience.
- I'm still unsure if I like him that much.
- other Infinite reasons that would break the VGC servers if I list them all.
So instead of going forward, do the following
Hold yourself.
Hold yourself.
Never forget 1 and 2. Never
be affectionate with her to a limit, hugs, caresses, kisses are allowed but stop as soon as you feel that passion is going to rise. This is why you must Remember steps 1, 2 and 3.
Reverse psichology, as much as you feel like in heaven if she asked in a suble manner(thay have many ways, believe me), look for an excuse to not do it. But be kind and gentle when rejecting it while you follow riles 1 2 and 3.
Be patient, very patient.
Pay attention to small details when you're with her. Most girls love when the guys they life pay attention to them and remembers them when asked.
Start talking to other girls more, however. Show her how much you like her from time to time: a gift, a card, a letter, a poem, a drawing, etc. If you make the gifts, the better the resutls. She will feel loved but seeng you with othe girls will get her attention.
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Don't forget the "Ew, why's he being so blunt about it?".
Each girl is different, and I can't say much without meeting her, but flat out asking is a general no no (keyword, general). Really, the important thing that the_bloodwalker said, be patient. Don't push it so much. Don't even talk about it for a while.
But yeah, pay attention to small things. Gifts are great too, especially the kind of gift that will make her say/think "Wow, I didn't even know you were listening when I said I liked/wanted this".
Really though, control and patience are key. Without those, it sounds like even if you do get with her, she'll move on due to boredom.
