At what age does it become weird to be a virgin?

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sapphi_snake said:

dsister said:

sapphi_snake said:

Why is not having sex OK, but having sex not OK?

He's saying it isn't wierd to be a virgin, but it is weird if you are going out every night trying to have sex, hitting on girls, and stuff. At least that's what I got from it. 

 

On topic: I don't think it ever really becomes weird to be a virgin. I'm waiting till marriage till I have sex, but that's just a personal  choice. 

I undertsand now. I still see it as adouble standard though. Why is it OK for someone to deliberately avoid to have sex, while it's bad to deliberately try to have sex?

Okay....Agreeing to disagree with Sapphi is fine with me as far as the stance on virginity goes. My personal choice is waiting until marriage. But about the question of the double standard...

From a purely objective standpoint, I'd say that it's not okay to deliberately try to have sex because it can affect other people, whereas abstinence doesn't have the potential to hurt anyone. After all, it's a choice that you have to make. It's not forced on you.