scottie on 21 April 2011
1) Lying to get out of the collapsing web of lies doesn't sound ideal
2) If your parents can't accept you for who you are, then I don't think you should care what they think.
3) Try a phased reduction in your lying? Tell them that you're having a little bit of a crisis of faith/personalty crisis, and that you just need some time to think things through by yourself. Hopefully it gets you out of the immediate perils and softens the blow when you finally tell them.
